It's part of humanity to judge, and bully people for what they have done. But have you ever thought about what it does to the person. Have you ever thought to hear her/his story before judging and gossiping about it. You may not know it or realise it but it hurts the person in the line of fire. They may look strong but inside they are hurting so much.
You can't deny it you have done it. This is a thing we do like as if we are programmed to do it. We need to learn to go against this virus of speaking behind peoples backs and believing lies without both sides of the story. WE need to make a change!!!
If you are one of the people who is being judged or lied about, all you need to know is YOU are loved!! You might not feel like it but God sent His only son to die on the cross for your sins. You might feel like giving up hope and losing faith that this world is any good. There is always a light in the end of the tunnel. The most important thing you must do is to take your problems and bury them. If you don't that is when you get hurt by what others say, and most probably when they see you have moved on they will stop their bullying. You need to accept what has happened and let it go. It is like a balloon tied around your arm stalking every step you take you need to get to a point where you cut that balloon loose and let it go!
YOU are loved!! Don't let people say otherwise! And say it to yourself it might feel weird but you need to start believing it and that is the only way. You are loved, you are special, you can do anything, you have dreams go chase them. GOD's heart beats for you!
If you are feeling down and think you can't go on in life feel free to email me if you want to vent or talk. I might just be 16 (turning 17 next month) but I am a great listener. I might not have the right things to say or know how you feel, I don't judge you! Don't keep thing bottled up! Please don't be shy! Don't think my problem is to small to bother someone about YOU are wrong no problem is to small if you are struggling and feeling worthless it is a problem worth talking about!!
PEACE and LOVE